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(Source: 0rbiting)
Receiving a collar is a HUGE milestone in the life of a sub. It doesn’t matter what it looks like. Some collars are actually just necklaces. Some collars are taken right off the shelf at a pet store. Other collars are chains with a padlock. It just depends on what is right for you and your Dom/me.
Sir and I talked a long time about collars. After deciding on a specific company, I posted a link to them on here. After waiting (not always so) patiently, I finally have Sir’s collar around my neck. It’s been fun going out in it. The knowledge of what it stands for, when being complimented on the ‘cute necklace’ by the little old lady at the buffet we went to for lunch.
It looks like an alternative type of necklace. But in fact IS locked. It does not come off unless purposefully done. Sir worked with the amazing Lorri over at Wyred Slave to get the tag just right. He and I are both extremely happy with how it turned out.
On one side, are 8 dots, to make it Sir’s lego. On the other is an inscription - it reads “This pet is owned and protected by ****** Any and all concerns with My pet will be directed to Me personally. She is Mine to do with as I see fit and will be handled accordingly.” Then on the edges are Kitten, lego and wife. Sir put it on my neck the first night of our vacation. It’s been a great source of pride for me.
I would HIGHLY recommend Wyred Slave if You Dom/mes are looking for a collar for Your sub or slave. They have a variety of looks, tags, and trust collars or locking. www.wyredslave.com
Sir loves my ass. He loves anal. I’m sure we’ll be doing a LOT of this next week.
(Source: t0uchyourself)
Taking Care of Yourself - Some advice
Good evening my lovely kinksters <3
After this weekend, the busiest time in Spring at work will be over, and I’ll have more time off, which in turn means more time to write. Yay! I’m excited about it. I have a notebook of notes for entries that I just haven’t had the time to write.
Anyways… I had a thought come to mind just a bit ago, and it was one that I felt was important and didn’t want to put off posting.
Taking Care of Yourself
You know how you have that favorite pair of shoes, or you take pride in your car, or have that favorite outfit to wear that compliments you in just the right way? You enjoy it no matter what. But think about this… Don’t you enjoy it MORE when those shoes are cleaned of any dirt or scuff marks? When your car is empty of random wrappers, papers, and other clutter? Your outfit is totally clean, wrinkle free?
It’s the same for you. Your Dom/me enjoys you. But I have a pretty good feeling (and I’ll ask Sir about it tonight during His lunch break in a little bit) that they enjoy you even more when you’ve been taking care of yourself.
Sir asks regularly what I have eaten that day. He wants to make sure I’m eating a balanced diet, not overdoing the sweets, not skipping meals causing havoc with my system. Don’t get me wrong, He isn’t trying to get me to lose weight or anything. He said if I choose to try and lose weight, He will support me, but it has to be my decision. He accepts and loves how I already am.
Our vacation is next week (and I’m more excited than I can even begin to convey) and tonight I decided to start taking care of my body a bit more in preparation. I have a bottle of Burt’s Bee’s lotion for feet, another for body. I made myself stop running around doing all of these household chores, sat down and did my lotion ritual (one that I haven’t done in probably a few months to be honest.) I went and used the facial cleanser for sensitive skin, and thoroughly cleaned my face. After my shower and letting my hair dry, I put in leave in conditioner to help make my hair softer. Just little things, but I feel better. I hate the feeling of dry skin, which I no longer feel.
I feel better, which bleeds into my mood, and our Dom/mes like it so much more when we are in good moods. Plus, I’m sure Sir will enjoy feeling the extremely soft skin as He runs His hands over my body.
Next Thursday I pick Sir up from the airport for our vacation. I’ve been planning my outfit for a couple of weeks now. (Sir wants to be surprised so I’ll have to wait to share since He reads this also.) I’ve picked out outfits that I feel sexy in, comfortable in, and those that I know are flattering. Planning those little things ahead of time make it so that I don’t have to spend the time figuring out what to wear when all I want to do is be spending my time with Him.
Sir has decided at the airport I am to carry a sign to hold as I wait for Him. It is to simply say “Sir” and I’m to hold it so anyone can see it. I’m sure I’m going to get a few looks, some curious, some taken aback, some confused. But you know what? I don’t care. All I care about is making Sir happy. This is His assignment for me, so it is one that I will carry out without a second thought.
Oh and to Dom/mes. Taking care of yourselves is a good thing as well. subs want to take care of their Doms to the best of their ability. If You don’t take care of yourself, and start to feel poorly, we will be upset, as we will want to make it better. If it’s something we cannot help, we feel helpless, which is a negative feeling, which can bleed into other emotions.
sub, Dom, Domme, or Switch. It’s a good idea to pay attention to yourselves, take care of yourselves, and in turn, you both will feel better, which will make play better. <3
Catching up…
I think I mentioned before that Sir and I are taking a vacation next month.
So many things are planned for then…
He is ordering a custom collar and tag for me, and He will be putting it on me then. He is also buying rings… Yes, rings. Not only His sub. His wife. I’m still almost in disbelief! Seems unreal… But it’s very real.
So some other things on the agenda…
First off - a complete waxing. I’ve only ever had my eyebrows waxed before so having EVERYTHING under the belt waxed… I’m a bit nervous which almost seems silly since I love the pain I receive from Sir. He wants to be with me while it happens, and check me over in front of the waxer to make sure nothing was missed.
Secondly - shopping for toys. He wants to start building a toy collection. Any suggestions for what we should search for?
Thirdly - tattoos. We will both be getting a tattoo of a Lego. We still haven’t decided on where to put it. They’ll be small. Suggestions are always welcome for consideration as well.
Fourthly - Starting to furnish/decorate OUR home. We’ll be looking for things to decorate the walls in Our bedroom first.
Fifthly - a photo shoot. We’ll be taking pictures with Our phones to have and share a few on here. But we’re also going to be having a bondage type of photo shoot done by a professional photographer friend of mine. We’ve been trying to think about what positions, types of pictures to take. Ideas?
Anonymous asked: Hey, kitten. :) So, we haven't spoken in a while (wow i sound like a CREEPER). FKA as PrettyPet on here, Master instructed me to remove my blog, as well as my fetlife profile. He said i was getting too wrapped up in how other people do things, and need to focus more on how He wants things done. Anyways, the reason that i'm writing you is because i noticed your ring post... Have you looked at etsy? I just found a great ring there with "slave" engraved inside. Just a suggestion. Good luck!
I understand what he means about the focus… I am rarely on fetlife anymore as so many of them infuriated me. Weekend warriors that think lifestylers are just ‘easy’.
If you email me at thelegokitten@gmail.com I can give you a way to get ahold of me easier if you’d like.
I don’t think Sir would like that ring, as technically I’m a sub, not slave. But thank you for the suggestion! We have found rings. And Sir is having a collar custom made for me, and it should be here by our vacation in May and I’ll be posting pictures of it. Our rings should be on then as well…. *grins* I’m so excited.
I hope you are doing well :) And as I said, email me and I’ll give you a more direct way if you’d like.
‘Lesson - Things I like about myself’ entries
I’m a good mother. I put my son before myself every time. I’ll stop at nothing to make sure he is taken care of.
I’m smart. Smarter than most people realize and it lets me keep up in conversation with a variety of people.
I’m loyal to a fault. It’s often bit me in the ass but I’ll stick next to people even when I’ve been screwed by them before.
I’m a big softie when it comes to animals. I was constantly taking in strays as a kid. I hate to see any animals mistreated and will do whatever I can to save them.
I believe in equality for all. I am a birthmom that chose a gay couple to adopt the baby. I think anyone should be allowed to marry and have a family, no matter their sexual orientation.
I’m creative. I’ll look at a task, like making a cake, and come up with dozens of ideas on how to make one based around the theme.
I’m good at decorating cakes. Not great, but I’m constantly pushing myself to get better.
I’m a watcher. This is a good thing because I may see things others don’t and need to know.
I’m a hard worker. I don’t think that things will be handed to me, and nor do I want them to be. I’m constantly trying to improve at work and often my personal life will suffer but I see it as insurance for the future.
More to come…
Taking Care of One Another
It is important to remember not to take your Dom/me or sub for granted. Doing little things, things to take care of them in big or small ways, is important.
The other day, I was hungry. I’d had a long couple of days, Sir was already at work. He told me to order pizza and put it on His card. I was a bit reluctant (I have a hard time accepting gifts) but dammnit, I was hungry and pizza sounded really good lol. That’s a picture of a slice from my favorite pizzeria. Pineapple and Bacon. Yum.
One thing I do to help take care of Sir, is a wake up call. Often when He is waking up to get ready for work, I’m at work, myself. So if I’m able to get a few minutes to step out, I’ll text Him to make sure He is up. He sleeps thru His alarm often. If He doesn’t respond to a couple of texts, I’ll call. And keep calling until He answers. It’s important that when He answers, I get Him talking. He’ll answer the phone in His sleep sometimes so I have to get Him engaged to make sure I know He is actually awake.
Getting to know one another, like how Sir is with sleep, helps. You know how to do the little things that’ll really help.
Sir knows that I talk about things that I’m dealing with, and not trying to drop hints, I just think better when voicing them sometimes. Well, He seems to know that if it’s to the point that I feel I have to talk about them, they’re pretty big things. Like my phone. I’ve had thing after thing happen with my phone lately and it’s a lifeline for me. Especially with Sir and I. With our work schedules being so different, texting is very big for us. So He keeps offering to buy or pay for a phone for me. I haven’t agreed, because as I said, I have a hard time accepting gifts. But He keeps reminding me that He “takes care of what is Mine.” So… Guess I’ll be giving in now as I’m hitting a brick wall trying to take care of it on my own.
BDSM may seem hardcore, but we all need to be cared for and nourished. Remember that ;)
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Hi! It’s Lola
Tell SIR I’m sorry he was disabled :( Hope he is able to dispute it and get back on. Everyone connected to ##edited out by kitten## was disabled. IDK what we did but it sucks. :(
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Lola, I let Sir know. *Relayed the message* I figured it was something connected to that. I had the same problem with The Lego Kitten fb page. Some trolls hit you and you’re screwed. That’s why I stick to tumblr now.
I hope you all are able to get back on. I’m sorry the trolls got you :(
